Choosing Solo Motherhood: The Ultimate Empowerment

January 5, 2024

Dimple Sthankiya

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After reading this post you’ll understand some of the reasons why more women are choosing solo motherhood. I’ll share empowering stories from women who have taken the leap, and offer helpful advice for those considering this life-changing decision.

Solo Motherhood

I feel your deep longing to be a mom. Feelings that call deep down in your bones. And it’s so frustrating, isn’t it? The right man just hasn’t come along yet, and the ticking of your biological clock gets louder every day. I know you worry about it being too late, and the thought of not trying everything possible —IVF, IUI — is unthinkable. You crave no room for regrets.

The fear that you might never experience motherhood mingles with your fear of facing it alone. Take a breath. Remember, today you have choices. IVF, IUI, single parenthood — they’re all possible. And, it’s okay to feel all these things.

Picture this: a woman, standing tall and bold, making a life decision that’s often seen as out of the ordinary. She’s choosing to become a mom, all on her own. It’s a bit like walking into a marathon with only one pair of sneakers – no water stations, no cheering crowds, no pacemaker to follow. But believe me when I say this – it’s the ultimate power move.

Let me share a bit of my story. When I turned 42, I found myself still single, without the partner I had hoped to start a family with. So, I chose solo motherhood. I realized love could come knocking at ANY age, but motherhood had a ticking clock. So I embraced the journey on my terms, proving that there’s more than one path to fulfilling your dreams of creating a family.


Choosing Solo Motherhood – Going Against The Current

Think about it – society’s got this narrative that’s hard to shake off. Meet someone, fall in love, get married, have kids – in that order. But you know what? It’s high time we threw that rulebook out the window. Who says you need to have a partner to have a kid? Who says you can’t have a child solo, and still rock it? The truth is, you can – and you should if it’s what you truly want.

The Power Of Choice To Become a Mom

This is all about choice, about saying to yourself, “I can do this, and I will”. It’s empowering, it’s brave, and it’s probably the most badass thing you can do. Sure, it’s not going to be a walk in the park, but what part of life ever is? With every diaper change, every late-night lullaby, every parent-teacher evening, you’re showing the world the power of choice. And that is no small feat.

If You Believe It Will Work Out, You’ll See Opportunities. If You Believe It Won’t, You Will See Obstacles.

Dr. Wayne Dyer

Reality of Solo Motherhood – One Woman, Many Roles

Just think about it – you’re pulling off a heroic one-woman act, being both mom and dad. I’ve walked in those shoes too, navigating the thrilling yet challenging path of solo motherhood. It’s not a journey everyone dares to embark on, but trust me, you’re stronger than you imagine.

I want to get one thing clear: just because you’re choosing to be a solo mom doesn’t mean you’re alone. Far from it, in fact. You’ve got family, friends, and a whole community of other kickass solo moms, and from my experience other moms period. You’re all navigating motherhood, sure you’re doing it solo but you’re still doing motherhood. They are all ready to back you up. So while you’re riding solo, you’re never really alone. There’s always help, always a shoulder to lean on, always an ear willing to listen. This isn’t solitude – it’s the ultimate support network.


My Nugget Of Wisdom

I’ve been down this road, you know. Tackled the scary stuff, weathered the doubts – well, for the most part at least. As a parent, solo or otherwise you’re always going through multiple emotions and asking questions of yourself. During my journey, I leaned heavily on a particular lesson from Dr. Wayne Dyer: “If you believe it will work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you believe it won’t, you will see obstacles.

When I was grappling with the idea of going it alone as a mom, I kept one thought front and center: there was a silver lining. Instead of focusing on not having a partner, I saw it as a chance to take charge, to love and parent my way. Instead of seeing it as a solo adventure filled with challenges, I saw it as an opportunity for me to forge a deeply personal bond with my child.

Sure, becoming a solo mom is no walk in the park, but when you switch up how you view things and truly trust in the power of your own choices, you open up a whole new world of opportunities. The obstacles turn into stepping stones, loneliness becomes a journey of self-discovery, and worry turns into excited anticipation. When I took the leap into solo motherhood, I didn’t just start a family – I forged my strength, my resilience, and my belief in the infinite forms of love. You can do it, too if that’s what you really want.

Next Steps On Your Solo Motherhood Journey

So, you’re contemplating the solo mom life? Get ready, it’s a whirlwind of an adventure. And trust me, it’s the most gratifying journey you’ll ever undertake. Don’t let fear hold you back, because choosing to be a solo mom is truly empowering. At the end of the day, it’s about choosing to bring a precious life into this world – a life that will bring you joy beyond words. And if you decide this path isn’t for you, that’s empowering too. Your journey is yours to shape.

Motherhood isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey. It’s varied, it’s individual, and it’s deeply personal. As a woman weighing up the solo mom path, you’re on the brink of rewriting your own rulebook in the most powerful way. You’ve got this.

You Ready To Take A Leap Of Faith?

Perhaps you’re feeling drawn to the empowering journey of solo motherhood? Maybe you’re not sure whether this is the right path for you? Either way you don’t have to do it alone. 

I’ve got a free Clarity – 7 Levels Deep Clarity Coaching tool designed to help you grasp your true motivations in just 30 minutes. Break free from feeling stuck and kickstart your journey. You can do it either independently or with a coach or friend. 


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