Boost Your Self-Esteem During Perimenopause. You, Not Society, Defines Your Beauty

November 29, 2023

Dimple Sthankiya

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This post will help you learn how to overcome self-doubt and embrace your beauty by adopting a new mindset and changing your narrative around body image, particularly as you hit midlife.

Who said youth has a monopoly on beauty? Does the media, with their relentless promotion of an unrealistic beauty ideal, have the final word? The answer is a resounding NO. You are the master of your destiny, the curator of your own beauty. It’s high time to break free from society’s expectations and embrace the ageless beauty within. Are you ready to tap into her?

Perimenopause: Changing The Narrative

The first step towards unshakable confidence is changing the way you perceive yourself. It’s time to toss aside the outdated notion that beauty fades with age. In reality, age is just a number, and your allure only grows stronger. To truly own your beauty, you need to develop a new mindset. Instead of dwelling on what has changed, focus on the timeless attributes that make you special. Have you ever noticed how your eyes sparkle when you smile? Or how your presence can light up a room? These are all qualities that make you uniquely beautiful. These are the things that will boost your self-esteem.


Once you’ve shifted your mindset, it’s time to bolster that newfound confidence with some powerful self-love techniques that work:

Change The Way You Speak To Yourself

Words have extreme power. They can either build you up or tear you down. By incorporating positive speak into your daily routine, you’re programming your mind to believe in your worth. Repeat after me: “I am beautiful, I am strong, and I am enough.’

Dress To Impress (Yourself)

It’s not about keeping up with the latest trends or impressing others. It’s about feeling good in your skin. Wear clothes that make you feel good. Remember, when you feel good, you look good, which makes you feel even better. Also wear clothes that fit you well. It’s amazing what a well fitted outfit can do for your confidence.

Surround Yourself With Positive Influences

You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Choose your circle wisely. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and celebrate your beauty, inside and out. And spend less time with those that don’t.

Balancing Act: Radiance Through A Healthy Lifestyle

Achieving a radiant appearance goes hand-in-hand with a balanced lifestyle. Here are some key components to consider:


You are what you eat. A well-rounded diet, rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and good fats, will provide your body with the nutrients it needs to glow from within.


Don’t be intimidated by the idea of breaking a sweat. Exercise comes in many forms, from yoga, to weights, to dancing and even sex. Find an activity that you enjoy and make it a part of your daily routine. The endorphins you release will have you feeling like a million dollars and the chemical whirlwind in your brain from exercising will ease anxiety.


Beauty sleep isn’t a myth. Your body needs 7-9 hours of unbroken rest a night to repair and rejuvenate itself. Prioritize your slumber and bask in the rewards of a well-rested, radiant complexion.

Our Differences Are What Make Us Beautiful

Imagine a world where everyone looked the same. Boring, right? Our differences are what make us beautiful. By embracing your beauty, you’re not only boosting your self-esteem, but you’re also inspiring others to do the same. As you embark on this journey, remember that confidence is contagious. When you own your beauty, you give others permission to do the same.


Become Timeless During Perimenopause

How does it feel to step into the light? Empowering, isn’t it? By now, you’re not just walking; you’re strutting, your head held high, your confidence palpable. 

But remember, this is not the end of your journey. It’s the beginning of an ongoing commitment to self-love and acceptance. It’s the start of a new chapter where you’re the protagonist who isn’t defined by a number but by her grace, her strength, her wisdom, and her beauty.

In this new era of ageless confidence, you’ve learned to disregard society’s expectations and to celebrate your unique beauty. You’ve discovered that self-esteem isn’t linked to age, but to how you perceive yourself. You’ve realized that the power to define your beauty lies within YOU.

In the wise words of Sophia Loren, “There is a fountain of youth: it is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of people you love. When you learn to tap this source, you will truly have defeated age.” Embrace your beauty and wear your confidence like the sparkling crown it is. 


My Nugget of Wisdom

Eckhart Tolle once said, “You are not your appearance; you are the awareness that perceives it.” That hit home. Suddenly, society’s beauty norms seem trivial. I realize my own self-worth doesn’t hinge on how I look but on the essence of who I am.

You Are Not Your Appearance, You Are The Awareness That Perceives It.”

Eckhart Tolle

Remember, your beauty isn’t defined by age or societal standards. It’s defined by your awareness, self-love, and the grace with which you carry yourself. 

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