What you build now decides who you become later

for Women

LONGEVITY DESIGNED

Your years ahead are built on what you do now. how you train, how you eat, how you recover, how you think, and how you honour your energy. This is where science meets soul, where strength training becomes a spiritual practice, and sauna bathing becomes devotion to the body that carries your purpose.

The New Future of  Female Longevity

This is a reimagining of female longevity where biology, modern neuroscience, and deliberate living converge to create a stronger, more powerful midlife.

The Woman You Become at 40+ & BEYOND

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I WANT STRONG OLD LADY BONES

No one was talking about strength, sensuality, or the outrageous possibility of feeling better now than at 30. So I started experimenting. With biology, behaviour, breathwork, heat, cold, laughter, stillness, supplementation, all of it. Not chasing eternal youth, but exploring what it means to live with intent, to play with the edges of my own energy. I wanted to know how far presence, science, and curiosity could take me.

I’ve taught yoga, yogic breathwork and meditation for over twenty-five years. I’ve spent as long in boardrooms, managing teams, building businesses. I know what it feels like to live at full tilt, and I know what happens when the engine starts to ask for a tune-up. At the time of writing this I'm at the start of my 50s. This longevity hub is the synthesis of both a field guide for women in their midlife who want to thrive with good health, intelligence, humour, and some solid science behind the madness.

Longevity, for me at least, isn’t about staying young. It’s about staying truly alive in my own skin. It’s my rebellion against dullness, against the idea that midlife is about loss. It’s about design, not decline and not wanting to spend old age immobile, not being able to travel and do the things I love with the people I love, especially my son. Taking longevity seriously now is about creating a life that I actually want to inhabit for decades to come when I'm in my old lady bones.

Everything here, I’ve lived. I’ve tested, researched, and occasionally sworn at. Some things worked instantly, some took months, some made me question everything. But every experiment brought me closer to this: a life that feels deliberate, expansive, and dare I say it wildly alive both in my inner world and the one that steps outside into the other, external world we all see and experience.

If you’ve found your way here, you’re probably the same kind of curious, the kind of woman who doesn’t want to fade quietly into “fine.” You want to understand, refine, expand, laugh, flirt, lift, love, build, rest, and live long enough to enjoy the masterpiece of it all that is this life. In good health.

So take what you need.
Try it, question it, adapt it.

Make it yours.
This isn’t a manual.
It’s an invitation to the next, most vivacious, healthier version of you.

WHY ME, WHY NOW?

I didn’t build Voyage & Soap because I was lost or having a midlife crisis. I built it because I wanted to see how good life in my 40s, 50s and beyond could get. At some point in my forties, I realised the conversation about midlife was catastrophically dull all decline and maintenance, as if the only goal was to stay upright and hydrated until the end. 

Activates muscle-repair and longevity pathways.

lift heavy

SLEEP

SCROLL

You are not at the mercy of your genes. Let’s start there, because “it runs in my family” has become the classiest way to give up. Epigenetics is the science proving your DNA is less a destiny and more a draft version. You can edit it daily with food, sleep, movement, stress, light, laughter and yes, the occasional decision not to drink wine on a Tuesday.

Every action sends tiny biochemical memos to your genes: “express this,” “silence that.”

  • Lift heavy weights? Activates muscle-repair and longevity pathways.
  • Meditate? Down-regulates inflammation and cortisol.
  • Sleep properly? Switches on DNA repair.
  • Scroll doom late into the night? Flips on ageing and fat-storage genes like lights on a Christmas tree.

You know what? Over 80% of ageing is driven by lifestyle and environment, not DNA.

Studies on midlife women show that consistent exercise, plant-rich diets, and stress regulation literally alter gene expression lowering inflammatory and metabolic risk factors that surge after menopause. Translation: you can talk your body out of decline. In molecular Morse code.

Oestrogen may have left the building, but your epigenome still takes notes. Every walk, strength training session, sauna, or superfood is a rewrite. It’s your biological version control constantly updating. Identical-twin studies show biological-age gaps of up to ten years purely from lifestyle. Ten. Same DNA, completely different outcomes.

So no, you didn’t “inherit” your mother’s fatigue, arthritis, or expanding midsection. You inherited the potential for them. And potential is optional. You are not a passenger in your biology.

You’re the editor-in-chief.
The most powerful line in your genetic code?
Subject to lifestyle.

Epigenetics

MEDITATE

Flips on ageing and fat-storage genes like lights on a Christmas tree.

Switches on DNA repair.

Down-regulates inflammation and cortisol.

mind-blowing

66% lower risk of dementia

The most powerful longevity drug isn’t in a lab it’s sitting half-naked in a sauna.

Four sessions a week. Twenty minutes each.

40% lower risk of dying early. 66% lower risk of dementia.

That’s from 20 years of Finnish research on over 2,000 people. No hype. No crystals. Just sweat. Here’s why it’s borderline miraculous: heat exposure mimics exercise. Your heart rate climbs to light-cardio levels think Zone 2, blood vessels dilate, and heat-shock proteins flood your system + tiny molecular bodyguards that repair damaged cells, clear out the junk, and make your mitochondria behave like they’re twenty-five again.

Regular sauna bathing cuts inflammation, improves circulation, boosts growth hormone, improves insulin resistance and trains your body to handle stress better. It even helps balance menopausal blood pressure and brain fog because, unlike your hormones, heat stress still shows up when you need it.

The science is so good it’s almost rude. Studies show that adding a fourth weekly session doesn’t just nudge the benefits up it leaps them exponentially. Three sessions are good; four are phenomenal.

Here’s what it feels like: you sit there questioning your life choices, sweat running down your spine, and then suddenly your brain releases serotonin and dopamine like you’ve won a neurological lottery. The stress you walked in with? Gone. The exhaustion that’s been your personality since 2020? Lifted.

Basically your nervous system gets a hard reset. Your skin glows like you’ve had eight hours’ sleep and an apology from your ex.

Do it four times a week. Twenty minutes. And every cell in your body will start whispering thank you.

If you can’t install one at home, join a gym, a spa, a dodgy-looking Scandinavian shed anything. The hardest part isn’t the heat. It’s deciding to start instead of bookmarking this for “later.” Which we both know means never.

And your future self is already in the sauna wondering what’s taking you so long.

SAUNA BATHING

40% lower risk of dying early

The Hot Habit That Outsmarts Ageing

LONGEVITY ISN'T LUCK. IT'S LIFESTYLE. THE BODY KNOWS WHAT SCIENCE IS ONLY JUST PROVING.

The Freeze That Frees You

the first ten seconds are pure hell. your body panics.

COLD PLUNGE

The first ten seconds are pure hell. Your body panics. Your lungs lock. Your brain starts writing your obituary. Then… the switch flips. Your mind sharpens. Your breath steadies. And you feel alive in a way you probably haven’t since the early 2000s.

That’s not enlightenment that’s neurochemistry.

Cold exposure floods your body with dopamine up to 250% higher and is sustained for hours. It’s focus, drive, and calm rolled into one hit. Unlike caffeine, it doesn’t spike and crash it steadies you. It also activates norepinephrine, the molecule of alertness, and beta-endorphins, nature’s painkillers.

The result? Mood elevation that rivals antidepressants.

For women, here’s where it gets seriously clever: Cold exposure improves insulin sensitivity, boosts brown fat activation, and lowers systemic inflammation - three things that tank post-40 when oestrogen starts ghosting you. It helps recalibrate your metabolism, stabilises blood sugar, and can even reduce hot flush frequency by cooling the hypothalamus (the bit of your brain that controls body temperature and loses the plot in perimenopause).

It’s stress training for your nervous system - a practice called hormesis: doing something uncomfortable so your body adapts and grows stronger. And it works astonishingly well for women.

In studies, short bursts of cold exposure improved mood and energy in perimenopausal women more effectively than mild antidepressants with zero side effects except the urge to tell everyone about it.

Start small: 30 seconds of cold at the end of your shower. Work up to two minutes. Then maybe the plunge pool, the tub, the lake. You’ll swear, you’ll gasp, and then you’ll grin like a maniac because you’ve just bio hacked your entire nervous system.

Cold is confidence. Cold is the cure for “I just can’t be bothered.”
Every plunge is proof that you can do hard things and come out the other side all electric.

I find it's the second before you make the decision that you're doing it that's hardest psychologically, but also remember women don't need to go as cold as men do for the same effect. When I am feeling scared of plunging I start with the water just a bit cooler, then cooler still then very cold. 

MUSCLE IS MEDICINE & NATURE'S SPANX

LIFTS MOOD, SLEEP AND SEX DRIVE

SLASHES RISK OF ALZHEIMER'S OSTEOPOROSIS & METABOLIC DISEASE

After 40, women lose up to 1 percent of muscle mass a year faster after menopause, when oestrogen, our natural muscle-preserving hormone, packs her bags and heads for the hills. Less muscle means slower metabolism, weaker bones, lower libido, and yes, brain fog (because muscle and cognition are biologically linked).

Here’s what no one tells you: muscle is an organ. It talks to your brain, liver and hormones through messengers called myokines. These microscopic legends reduce inflammation, balance blood sugar, and even tell your brain to grow new neurons. Every time you pick up a weight, you’re sending your body a biochemical memo that says, “Stay alive and fabulous.” Remember to lift heavy.

For midlife women, it’s not optional.

Strength training:
  • Raises growth hormone and testosterone (the good kind).
  • Rebuilds bone density.
  • Lifts mood, sleep and sex drive.
  • Slashes risk of Alzheimer’s, osteoporosis, and metabolic disease.

Three sessions a week. Heavy enough that the last 1-2 reps make you pull faces you wouldn’t post on Instagram. Stick to the big moves like squats, presses, rows, deadlifts and don’t panic: you will not get bulky. You’ll get defined, stable, and radiantly self-possessed.

Don’t have a gym? No problem. Get yourself some dumbbells and do it at home. It’s cheaper than Spanx, works better than collagen, and the results last longer than motivation quotes on Instagram.

You will not get bulky. You’ll get strong. Your metabolism will fire up. You’ll sleep better, stand taller, and feel that delicious, quiet confidence that comes from being physically capable in your own skin.

Think of it as your biological pension fund — every rep is a deposit into future independence.
Because when you’re 80, I want you opening jars, hearts, and champagne bottles with one hand.

Strength Training 

REBUILDS BONE DENSITY

RAISES GROWTH HORMONE AND TESTOSTERONE